A Walk to Remember

There are moments in parenting that feel like tiny, sacred time capsules—and this week, I stepped into one of those.

I walked my 6-year-old to school for his very first day of first grade.

Just the two of us, side by side, under a sky brushed with soft morning light. The temperature here in Texas was perfect—not too hot, not too cold. The air was gentle, with a breeze that seemed to carry whispers of change.

Surprisingly, we both woke up an hour before the alarm. He, bubbling with excitement and curiosity, couldn’t stop talking about what the day would bring. Me—awake early, but restless in a different way—carrying the quiet weight of a parent’s heart.

As we stepped outside, I held his small hand and listened as he narrated the dream he had the night before. The dream where he was a superhero, flying high, his new school bag a cape flapping behind him. He giggled as he told me how much he loved that bag—his dad had picked out— you know.. the blue kids’ backpack with dinosaurs.

Walking down the familiar path, I saw other parents around us—some smiling warmly, others with tears threatening to spill, some exhaling relief after a long, relentless summer of being “on” nonstop. It struck me deeply: this moment is the start of a cycle as old as time. Generations of parents watching their children step forward into the world, while quietly carrying their own memories of the same walk, the same fears, the same hopes.

Then I tried to recollect my first day of first grade... but I couldn’t remember. I just remembered the elementary school classroom, but not that first day. Then I realized—he might never remember this walk, this backpack, or his dream. That fact that he woke up an hour early… someday, this would be just my memory.

This walk was more than a path to school—it was a bridge between what was and what’s yet to come.

I was drawn back to the present. I could hear the echoes of children’s laughter while my son’s pace quickened as the school doors came into view. His eyes sparkled with the nervous excitement of a six-year-old on the cusp of something new—new friends to meet, a new teacher to impress, a new space to explore. He was living fully in the present—that beautiful moment of now that children inhabit so effortlessly.

When we reached his classroom, the soft creak of the door opening, the teacher’s kind eyes scanning the room, the smell of new books stacked neatly on desks waiting to be discovered—he was instantly swept away by the bright colors, the books, the faces of children he’d never met but already wanted to know. He was busy—busy making new friends, busy checking out his desk, busy being a first grader.

And there I stood.

Quiet. Still.

Waiting for one last hug.

I wasn’t ready to let go.
Not yet.
But he had already moved on.

I said goodbye softly, hoping he would turn back for just a second, hoping for that small connection before the day began. He didn’t. But I leaned down anyway, planting one last kiss on his forehead—warm and tender. He barely noticed, already caught up in the thrill of this new chapter.

And as I turned away, I felt a lump rise in my throat—a strange mix of pride and loss, joy and sorrow all tangled together.

Because this moment, this ordinary morning, was anything but ordinary.

This was the first step. A letting go. A new beginning.

And somewhere deep inside, a mother’s heart was breaking a little—because these days, these walks, these small hands in mine—they are fleeting.

So, I walked slowly. I breathed deeply. I held tight to the present, knowing that in the blink of an eye, it would become a memory I’d replay over and over—embracing and reckoning as the good old days unfold, and I try to add just one more hug, one more kiss.

If you are reading this—please, breathe too. Notice the sunlight filtering through the leaves. Feel the small hand in yours. Listen to the stories spilling out like little rivers of wonder and hope.

Because these moments—the “good old days”—are not behind you. They are happening right now.

Don’t rush. Don’t wish them away.

Cherish them.

Hold them gently in your heart.

And know that one day, when tears come quietly in a different way, you will look back on a walk just like this—one you will never forget.

Thank you

Swetha D

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